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way back in my senior high, this guy is always exchanging seats with my seat mate. well, i thought he just can’t see what’s on the board but wait, he’s sitting two rows in front of me… how come he can’t see the writings on the board? what the heck, maybe he just wants me to help him with our english subject. so that was it, he would borrow my notes and return it with another note also inside the pages saying sweet nothings (i can’t exactly remember those words duh, i’d threw it). hey, i’ve been eyeing somebody else at that time so i’m not interested. besides, everytime i hear his surname, i’ll tell myself that i would not marry a person with that  funny surname.

but then, months of sitting beside each other has developed friendship. my friends are his friends and his’ mine, too until we
all are one big circle of friends. but this friendship has come to an end when i said yes to him, actually i don’t really mean it at that time because it was graduation and we all have to go our separate ways. frankly, i don’t want us to go our separate ways as friends. but it has to be more than that to keep him along.

went to college and i  would go abroad twice a year for my resident visa and stay miles away from him for a couple of months but he never failed to write me every single day, he would tell me what happened that day and how much he misses me. and what i’d do?.. ignore it. but  in fairness i write  once in two weeks (no e-mails yet at that time).

we were the typical young couple who could be seen inseparable at that time. i’ve grown to love him because he takes care of me in place of what my family should be providing me, he’s there  every single day and helps me with my projects. but still, my priority is still my studies. our relationship never affected my studies and the more we fight, the more i study hard.

our world turned upside down when he graduated and started working, i was still in college coz mine is a six-year course. i’m concentrating hard with my studies to graduate on time while he, discovered the outside world apart from me.. the corporate world. our relationship became taken for granted and there were so many fights, cool offs, other relationships, but we would still end up together. we hanged on like that for seven years.

but hey, i married that guy! i still had second thoughts of if i’m sure i like to adopt his surname coz sometimes i still use my maiden name especially when people became suddenly deaf of listening to my new surname. but whenever i look at him, he gives me the strength for this marriage to last, he would always pray for our marriage and he would always pray for us to stay in love as we are married for 11 years now. he always thank God that i came to his life and i do just the same.

and so, if i had seconds thoughts of adopting his surname before i marry him, now i know for sure i don’t have second thoughts that i married the right guy.

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